Summer 2025 Play Date Ideas
Before we get into my first Let's Have an Adventure Ideas List…let's chat a bit of my reality.
Today, June 2025 - I am not interested in dating anyone new at this time. Whereas I'm healing from my 💔 well…it takes time for me before I'm ready to allow myself to become emotionally involved on any level beyond good fuck friends. Please respect my boundaries and know that you are not the exception.
I need time. How much? I have no idea…we are talking about a man that I have been in love with since he first kissed me in 2018. It was always there with us. I'll be ready to date…when I'm ready to date, and not one second before.
Even after I'm ready to date again…it won't be an overnight decision. Dating for me doesn't come quickly. I am polyamorous…this will never change about me. I am also an adult and believe open communication is key to successful relationships.
b. and I have been married a quarter of a century.
J. and I have been together 3½ years.
I chat, at length, with BOTH before I date anyone. They ask any questions they want. Before I start dating someone new is when either have the ability to open the conversation where they might think I'm not ready or perhaps they have something else we need to discuss.
I won't date anyone until I am ready…and both of my partners think I am ready and are good with my decision to date again.
Whereas I have no clue when I'll be ready to date…I know that with this particular 💔…it's going to be awhile until I'm ready to let someone in again.
Until then…I'm gonna fuck and have fun. 😈
Princess Particulars:
b. will tell you I'm high maintenance, spoiled, particular, and a hard ass worker…not afraid to work for my desires.
J. will tell you I like being spoiled. And probably a bunch of other sweet things that aren't going to be discussed here.
ExD - spent less than $300 while we were dating and then accused me of extortion 🤣🤦♀️ - well…I had a feeling a LONG time ago that ExDs self-esteem, self-worth, and self-value were all attached to money…there were signs in 2018 - the first time we fucked…and our discussion after in his sexy car (he made that car look good)...back then he intentionally went home to get that car because we were gonna fuck right off of the GAP trail.and he wanted to impress me with his car? UM…I mean it was nice and all…but…just like my former Bimmer Convertible phase…it's just a fucking thing. I never wanted anything from him, except him…
….anyways…I'm not sure what he'd say about me. Anyways…
We are different people depending on with whom we are interacting…
I am only looking for play dates without romantic emotional expectation...basically, fuck friends. Be it hooking up and having one adventure or having a handful of adventures…let's keep expectations based in reality.
NO romantic emotional entanglements!
Next…Let's Chat Money 🤦♀️🤣
Once I had a play date planned…we were going to kick off my 12 cums of Christmas I was doing for ExD. I fucked 12 guys, couldn't write about them all…I was going to wear a super sexy NEW outfit…provide the location (my trailer for this particular adventure…over an hour away from me…using my propane, condoms, new lingerie). He was going to come, and cum…and then I asked him if we can grab Chipotle after…this silly man said
“I didn't realize this was pay for play”
🤣🤣🤣 silly man…
$15 MAX at Chipotle to feed me after fucking me isn't “pay for play” 🤦♀️ That's not even a fucking date. Needless to say, I canceled our play date.
Men who think feeding someone after fucking them is “pay for play” are not the men for me. If that's you, please move along.
Men who think taking me into a store for condoms, snacks, and a cold water is pay for play. We aren't going to be a match. Please move along.
I live in reality.
I want no new emotional relationship at this time. I also have a great pussy and love to fuck…most men I've met on Fet haven't met anyone else one on one outside of a bookstore/club setting.
If you are a cock owner and think the Princess identifier on Fet means pillow princess…well, um…no. I like to be spoiled. And to keep expectations in reality, I've come up with a few ideas that cost less than an average dinner and drinks date.
If it's not for you…then please enjoy my stories and enjoy your journey finding someone that matches your desires. Life is short…fuck how you wanna more. 😈
Fuck Friend
Sexual Shenanigan Ideas:
I'm open to hearing any idea, these are just a few I came up with for folks who are new to kink or are just having a “writing block” of sexy Ideas.
If you're interested in any of the following, DM me and let's chat more 😈
I mostly play with men. However, I do enjoy playing with couples from time to time.
I am not interested in playing with women solo at this time…just because, well I'm a sucker for a specific kind of woman and I simply don't have the kind of time I'd need.
Paint Me and Fuck Me - Art Therapy & Sexual Self-Care
We, as a society, don't discuss men's self-care wants, needs, desires enough.
Men are visual, sexual creatures. When men want sex during stressful times, often they are shamed about what they want.
They want to forget about the bad while feeling really good, and intimately connected, to someone. There is no shame in this.
Fucking can be stress relief for men. Fucking is self-care for men…even if the only thing they're fucking is their hand at home, because they're not getting the sexual and sensual attention they crave.
Well…
I love to utilize sexual stress relief!
I love art therapy.
I love sexual therapy.
Let's combine the two and create a beautiful masterpiece or a few….paint me, fuck me, canvas it for history 😈
Picnic & Pussy
Let's meet at Giant Eagle and grab some grapes, cheese, something sweet, ice cold beverages, and go on a picnic.
We can chat…snack on the munchies (nothing too heavy, cause it's better to fuck when your not stuffed 🤣😈 no pun intended)...snack on my snacth…
* has to be early-ish, or a cool day in the 70's due to my asthma and allergies and fucked up rib which is causing issues with my breathing.
** preferred with someone I've met in person - if this is with a new or new'ish fuck friend, there will be no sexual shenanigans in public…
Pick Me Up - Fill Me Up - Take Me Home
Let's meet at a restaurant bar for appetizers and drinks. You can be a stranger…and notice me all alone at the bar…looking sexy and probably on my phone 🤣 (I mean we are talking in reality, right?)
After…we go to your place and have our bar hookup fun and fuckery as you feast on me 😈
Road Trip n Chill
There are so many adorable little spaces in SW Pennsylvania…towns with yummy dinners, great parks/lakes/trails/history, festivals, outdoor events with food and bands, minor league baseball, hockey (if you wanna take me to a Baby Pens Game, I'll grab my jersey 😱🥰)...football at a little town bar/tavern, local bands…I'm into all sorts of music (well no heavy metal or heavy rap)...waterfalls, I'm a sucker for waterfalls.
Play indoors after/before our public/outdoor adventures.
Close by adventures for new friends, please.
Diners, Drinks, and Dick Me Down
Let's split a late lunch at a diner, then dick me down, then go for drinks…and repeat step 2, the dick me down parts 😈
Drive-In Foreplay
Movie 1 I can usually stay awake for…sometimes….maybe…
Move 2 I get sleepy…I'm not staying awake 🤣
You'll have a remote, to the toy inserted in my pussy, to make sure I stay awake through movie 1…
Then we'll probably leave to go back to your place to finish our fuckery 😈
*There are specific drive-ins off limits for this adventure due to a partner(s) request. Thanks for respecting this without questions.
Wanna play one-on-one?
Then I'm gonna need more than you're gonna make me cum…I want interesting and adventurous shenanigans.
I'm not interested in hooking up solely for the goal of the male orgasm. If that's your goal please enjoy my stories. We won't be a match for one-on-one play.
Important Notes: because some single/“single” men need instructions for me 😈🤣
Yes, you must wear a condom to fuck me. Period. You are not the exception. If you "don't work” with a condom on, it's mental, I promise…pop a little blue pill and you'll work just fine.
No, I am not a cum slut and certainly not your cum slut. Perhaps I was a cum slut for ExD…but…he brought that out in me and not with his awesome cock. It's because I love him. We are no longer together. No I don't want your cum down my throat because you think it's hot. Sometimes I like cum on my titties…but that's about it. If I want something different in this arena I will ask for it. Thanks for respecting this.
No, dom, rough, taboo at all, or public play with new fuck friends. I will let someone know if I am comfortable participating in public play with them…and it will never be a new perspective I've never fucked before. As far as the others…yes, I do enjoy being coked when I'm cumming. NO you can't do it. There are only 2 people at this time who can and b. isn’t even one of them…so…you definitely won't be.
Just because you read something I have participated in with someone else, doesn't mean I will want to participate in that with you. I decided what, who, where, when, how long, etc… there are certain fuck friends who are allowed to do more with me because I decided it to be that way. If you're gonna complain that someone else got to do something…please understand I'm not a fucking pizza you can order as you want. 🙄🤷♀️ I have boundaries and comfort levels that are different with each person I play with. If that's too much for you to understand then we won't be a match for one-on-one play.
Don't be a dick.
Thanks for reading.
I'm looking forward to hearing your unique, adventures we could explore together. 😈
Kisses 💋
Shorty
