2-4 Cold Wet Inches
2-4 Cold Wet Inches…
Fucked up my morning playdate 😢
Now I'm not getting 7 warm hard inches this morning…and I was ready to write today. 😢
I'm going to use this space to share a little more about my sexual processes and answer a few Q&A's.
Sexual Self-Care
Years ago, I decided that I wanted to add more to my sexual experiences. I found that when I was relaxed, pampered, and taken care of…I had a much more enjoyable time.
Today, I have many different sexual self-care routines that I implement before I have sex, both on a romantic level with one of my partners and on a non romantic, we're just fucking level.
What I want and need varies…
I'll walk you through my preparations for today…
5:25 am - wake up, get coffee, listen to meditation music, while planning my morning.
The plan:
5:30 - 6:00 - enjoy coffee, take a Xanax (I'm still very emotional right now), listen to meditation, write
6:00 - 6:30 - mentally and emotionally prepare for my playdate. Right now, being very emotional, I cry out of nowhere. This morning's play date wasn't about my emotional needs, so I have to make sure my mental and emotional spaces are ready to have a good time, without tears. Today I'm meeting with someone for the 2nd time. I think with our life dynamics, it could turn into a healthy FWB situation. Good sex. Chat on Snap sometimes. Doesn't want a romantic relationship. The dynamics are perfect.
6:30 - 7:00 - I put a deep conditioner in my hair and put a shower cap on. While I let the conditioner penetrate my hair, I used a sugar scrub on my damp body, from my shoulders down to my toes…making sure to massage my boobs a little extra because guys seem to like them 😉 Next I used a foot softening scrub on my feet. Then I got in the shower to wash every inch of my body, shave, and then moisturize.
7:00 - 7:30 - After blow drying my hair, I got on my sexy outfit and turned on music. I choose my Sexy Classical music list.
If I'm home, I hit my vape and start taking a few sexy photos. Before I started writing about my sexual shenanigans, my sexy photos only had one purpose…to tease the person who is about to fuck me.
Now I get to tease them before…and after they fuck me, by sharing a few pics here 😈
I enjoy relaxing with music while taking sexy pics. I started taking sexy selfies for the man that made me realize I'm polyamorous. I would send him daily morning pics as his “gym motivation”.
Even after that relationship ended, I kept taking sexy selfies for various men I'd fuck.
The more I took sexy pics, the more my self-esteem grew. Until my mid 30s, I didn't find myself beautiful at all. I mean, ok…guys tell me I'm pretty, but guys will say anything to get laid.
They will. 🤣
I went through an entire body positivity transformation. Now I weigh 30 pounds more than back then and I think I'm smoking hot, most days. During this time I also adopted many different body self-care routines and over the years added pieces, like classical music to improve both my mental spaces and emotional spaces. Music makes me feel extreme emotions at times. I work through pain, grief, loneliness, happiness, sexiness, silliness, and more emotions through my photos.
Just ask anyone who has been on my sexy, artistic nude, journey through snapchat over the past 7 years 😈
My photos improved after my self-esteem and self-care improved.
Now, to be perfectly honest…if you don't like my photos, ok, cool. There are only four people I care about what they think of my sexy photos, the 3 amazing men in my life…
And ME! 🥰
As you can probably tell, I take my sexual body, and mind, care very seriously.
Hope you're not too disappointed with no sexy adventures this time. There will be one soon!
The 2 - 4 cold, wet, inches of snow hindered my playtime dates.
And no…no nut is worth risking your life for guys…think with your big head, please 🤣
Both people I was to play with communicated the situations, and we decided a different day would be better.
Q&A
Q: I don't understand your relationship dynamics. Could you explain?
A:
b. is my hubby of nearly 25 years.
He is non monogamous,
b. is my cuck
BF - Not on Fet
Soon-to-be-ex-BF - taking a break from Fet (it's complicated)
No, I'm not interested in dating anyone else at this time.
Q: group or 1on1
A: As with most things in life, it depends. I believe there is a time and place for many different forms of sex…as well as different reasons for having sex, all contributing factors to the question.
My answer on a strictly fucking, unattached, basis is group sex!
I love having gangbangs. 😈
Besides, about ½ of 1on1 don't show up🤦♀️🤷♀️
Q: How long have you been in the lifestyle?
A: I'm not sure how to answer this. It's my life, it's how I am, it's who I am…it's not my lifestyle, it's just one of the many parts that make up me and my lifestyle.
I've always been kinky. Even as a late teen. I was willing to experiment and try new things. I was easily encouraged to explore my slutty side in all of my serious relationships.
b. and I have thoroughly explored many areas of kink, bdsm, non monogamy, polyamory, and more. There's not a lot (except taboo things) that we haven't tried.
Q: I can't make Monday’s gangbang, can you have another one Thursday night?
A: Um. NO
You're not ordering a fucking pizza. 🤣
Come on, now. We are all adults…let's not act like women on Fet are just sitting around all sex to please and accommodate single and “single” men. If I am posting for a gangbang and you're not a friend on Snap…don't ask me to rearrange my LIFE for your kink needs 🤦♀️
Kisses 💋
Shorty
P.S. please invite your kinky friends to follow along. I'm hoping my writing can help others explore their own body and needs, as well as feel free to sexually explore, with NO fucking shame! 🥰💋😈
If 2-3 of my sexy readers can join at the $5/month level, you'd be getting me the specific condoms I need for my precious and picky pussy. 😈💋 Thanks! DM me after you join, so I can thank you. 😘🥰
